I receive many questions concerning the sensual sports. I am devoting this page to tips and pointers to those who wish to improve their skills. If you need more in depth information or instruction, feel free to contact me.

pick-up tips

Guys rarely believe it when they hear or read that girls are looking for someone who can make them laugh. What that's really saying is that they are looking for someone with the right attitude. More than looks, the size of your cock or money ... well, maybe not money ... a girl wants a guy with a good attitude. Not stuck on himself or desperate but relaxed and good natured, ' ... it's the 'tude dude! ... '

You may loose a one nighter to a pretty boy or a big stick {yes, we girls can be just as shallow as guys, temporarily!} but long term your attitude will win out.

So, first tune up your 'tude; then remember these tips:

• Look Your Best. Even a great attitude isn't going to overcome dirt, bad breath and body odor. I know girls who cringe at the thought of a hand with grease under the fingernails touching them, let alone being inserted into a sweet spot.
• Use Eye Contact. When you talk, look in her eyes, not the ground, over her shoulder or into her boobs.
• Smile.
• Carry Yourself Confidently.
• Step In Toward The Person. Share your space if you want to share hers.
• Make Room For The Person. Can't share the space if there is no space.
• Give Little, Light Touches. NO! Don't get grabby and scare her off. Just light touches on the hand or wrist when you talk.
• Ask Open-ended Questions. Don't ask yes or no questions. 'Do you know you're beautiful?', may get you a yes or no answer. But, 'How did you get to be so beautiful?' might get you a conversation. - Try not to be as corny as these examples, though.
• Give Sincere Compliments.
• Whisper. If your mojo is working, she'll lean in closer to you to hear what you're saying. If she doesn't it means there's no mojo and you aren't going to get her to a HoJo.
• Be Polite.
• Do Something To Stand Out. No, that doesn't mean walk around with an erection.

If those tips don't work for you, give me a call. I'm a sure thing.

erotic sex positions video

This video, from YouTube, demonstrates several sex positions. The performers are all women. And, no, I am not one of the performers. They are posing in an erotic manner, simulating sex positions. There are many positions displayed, some of which may be unfamiliar to you. You may want to try them all, at least once. Surprise your sexy lover with a new sex position. Drive your lover wild! Find new pleasure from each new sex position that you sample. Release your mind and imagination.

kissing video

This video, also from YouTube, demonstrates two young women kissing, obviously enjoying themselves. That's the purpose of kissing, enjoying and gaining familiarity before you start "bumping uglies". It's important to enjoy the moment before doing the deed. Don’t be desperate; don't immediately reach for breasts. Work your way up to breasts. Gently embrace and hold. One hand might play with hair, neck, and just touching soft velvety skin. Caress her back. Slowly down the back and gently grasping ass and then move up the back, again. Or a hand up on her chest, slowly between her breasts, higher and higher and gently take the neck or chin and kiss again. Take your time, let the passion build. Then move down to the breasts; the belly; the mons. Order doesn’t really matter. Enjoy. Use your imagination. As a guide, start caressing the body from a less erogenous zone (such as hands, back, hair) and gradually work your way to breasts, pussy. Explore gently. You may be surprised at the response.

Now, let's watch a man and woman kiss.

buying your lady lingerie that she will want to wear

Lingerie boutiques can be awkward for men, but a few tips make can make you an expert on what to buy and how to buy it. Sales staff are trained to narrow down the field by asking questions and making suggestions, to close a sale, regardless of suitability.

• Women enjoy receiving items for special occasions that they would not buy themselves. If she usually wears a t-shirt and flannel to bed, try a baby doll or a more daring choice. “Fun and special; slightly more sexy than every day wear."
• Select lingerie based on her personality. If she’s a bit of a dare devil, go for the risque lingerie. More reserved, something subtle. You can’t go wrong with lacy boyshorts.
• Don’t do comparison shopping in the store (”About your size” is a No, No.). Investigate, you may like it. Look in her underwear drawer and note the sizes before you go shopping. Also, peek in the closet (it's OK to come out of this closet) to find out her dress, blouse, and pant sizes, so you can at least narrow it down to small, medium, or large.
• How big are they anyway? If you’ve ever wanted to know how women determine the 36D in 36-24-36, here’s the gist:
  • Measures her chest diameter, just below her breasts.
  • Add 5 to the measurement to get a number -- usually between 32-40 (the band size).
  • For cup size, measure the diameter of her chest directly over her nipples. (Hey, concentrate!)
  • The difference between the two numbers determines cup size. (For every inch, you go up a size, so to be a D-cup the difference between the two numbers would be 3 1/2 to 4 1/2 inches, like me!).
• Buy her classy lingerie that she can wear under her clothes. Women prefer something that’s sexy but can be worn on a daily basis.

- NOTICE -
All monies and/or gifts exchanged are for time and companionship ONLY and do not state or imply an offer of prostitution. Anything that may or may not happen during our time together is simply between two consenting adults of legal age. I reserve the right to decline appointments if I deem necessary, for any reason, at my sole discretion. I do not accept appointments without proper verification.